I know you don't want to hear this but you are still just a
kid. Now is NOT the time to be commited to a boy.
You better enjoy your freedom and younger years while you can
Don't commit to one boy or anything like that.
Don't behave like you are married you have many years for
that ahead of you.
Trust me. I didn't start dating until I was 16 and was married by the time I was 18 and a mother at 19.
I have been married since 1966.
I have five grand children and my daughter has been divorced
and now there are more problems then you can shake a stick
at. Her oldest is only 12 and is so unhappy.
he is only two years younger then you are.
You have things to consider school, what you want to be in
life. Try to pave a path for yourself that will allow you
the freedom of choice in the future.
I remember when I was a kid I used to say I couldn't wait to
grow up and get married so that like my parents I could be
free to make my own choices and be my own boss.. NOT..
Once you grow up THEN is when the freedom is over.
YOU may be your own boss but then the responsibilities are
greater .. You have to have a home, you have bills, you may
have a husband and meals to cook and children to raise.
If you think as a kid you have no freedome you are just not
yet responsible for all those things.
Take time to see how a boy behaves and see if he is a person
committed to just HIS needs or if he is the kind of person
that understands he may be a man BUT. He is supposed to be
the kind of person that feels and knows the needs of his
family and wife or girlfriend. If he is self centered kiddo
RUN RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN. that is unless you like being
a slave, or the one that has to give up EVERYTHING just to
hang onto him.. It is far better to know these things BEFORE
YOU COMMITT TO ONE PERSON ...
Hi , I added you.. you are 14?
You are very young. Heart breakers come in all sizes, shapes
and forms. I am 62 and find that the biggest heart breakers
of all can be your own Children. Society is cruel also.
One has to find strength in ones beliefs and in ones self.
I guess it all boils down to accepting things we can't change
or can't control. I am STILL learning this. And it is hard
I find comfort in my pets also. They love unconditionally
and never want to leave you. One can tell them your deepest
secrets and KNOW they wont go and gossip about you.
I took a job one time as a groomer finding that animals are
so honest if they don't like you .. You KNOW IT. LOL.
they can't hide their feelings. LOL.. And don't lie to you.
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